Welcome, Matt

Photos by Brevin Blach

(Published in the December 2010 issue)


It was only a matter of time. Having advertised his bars in this

magazine for four years, Matt could resist no longer. Empowered by

an adventurous spirit (with a masochistic streak), he finally cracked,

throwing his hat and heart in the ring for a PacificSD blind date.

In preparation for tonight's date, Matt and Julia were asked to write a

couple sentences about themselves and what they're looking for in a mate.

Julia emailed this message:
Me: I'm a sweet and spicy home-

grown yogi with the best friends and

family a girl could ask for. my friends

would say I'm sharp, funny, sensitive

and loyal, but then again, they're

blinded by love.

Him: Someone who is already living

a happy, healthy life, whose actions

match his words. nice eyes, great

smile, can make me laugh my head

off-and really knows how to kiss.

xoxo-Julia

Here's what we got from Matt:
Matt is an entrepreneurial busi

ness owner in the restaurant and

bar industry. athletic, charming and

outgoing, Matt is looking for a woman

that is much the same. Because of

his busy social and professional life,

Matt would seek a partner that is able

to support him in his endeavors but

also has goals and interests of her

own. Matt would love to meet a wom

an who has the ability to motivate and

inspire him-in other words, someone

with a lust for life. If you need anything

further, let me know!

Thanks-Jillian

Matt can write, but he's big into delegating, too. As owner and 

operator of three popular bar/restaurants (Firehouse in PB, Vin de

Syrah and Analog in the Gaslamp), he's a busy guy. Jillian, his executive

assistant, must be even busier.

Julia and Matt are about to meet for the first time at the new

Hennessey's Tavern in La Jolla, located at the spot on Herschel Avenue

that used to be Sante Ristorante. Before they arrive, let's review the pre-date

interviews. (This time, Matt's answers are his own.)

PacificSD: Where are you from and

where do you live now?

JULIA: Born and raised in La Jolla. 

Love living in Little Italy.

MATT: In reality, born and raised in 

San Diego; living in Crown Point. In

my mind, both Venus and Mars.

What do you do for a living?
JULIA: Business development, and 

I'm a yoga teacher.

MATT: I'm an entrepreneur, artist 

and social engineer.

What do you do for fun?
JULIA: Yoga, travel, beach, cooking, 

live music, all the usual urban arts.

MATT: Beach volleyball, drive my 

dune buggy really fast up giant sand

dunes, drink tequila, watch the

history channel, listen to NPR.

What makes you a good catch?
JULIA: Well, he'll never be bored.
MATT: I'm totally awesome.

What are you looking for in a date,

physically and emotionally?

JULIA: Someone who is good 

company, good chemistry, smart,

funny, kind and honest. If he is all

those things, he will look good to me.

MATT: Warm blooded, likes to 

drink-that's about it.

Why did your last relationship end?
JULIA: He was a Pinocchio who 

never turned into a real boy.

MATT: We always fought over the 

soft-shimmer bottle.

Finish this sentence: In general,

the people I date are "blank" and

"blank."

JULIA: "Charming" and "disarming."
MATT: "Lushes" and "like to read 

books (I want to read but can't

because I have a phobia of more

than three sentences in a row), then

tell me about them."

What do you fear most?
JULIA: Mean people.
MATT: The dark.

As the daters arrive at Hennessey's,

they take a seat by the fireplace next

to the bar and order cocktails. As

requested by PacificSD, both have

brought $25-max gifts to exchange

with each other.

A

fter talking over cocktails for about an

hour, the daters exchange holiday gifts-

Julia scores a Snuggie and some martial arts

toys; Matt unwraps a baseball cap. After

posing with their presents outside Hennessey's, they

head to dinner at Roppongi, the Zagat-rated, Asian

Fusion restaurant on Prospect Street.

It's Saturday night, and the joint is jumping. 

Roppongi's general manager has reserved a coveted

table next to the fish tank, but the couple opts instead

for a more subdued and intimate setting by the sushi

bar. After they've had a chance to sip Sake and rock a

few rolls, they're split for mid-date debriefings.

PacificSD: How's it going so far?
JULIA: It's going pretty well. He's great. He's 

confident without being cocky. He seems

very genuine. Good company, very good

company. Good conversation.

MATT: Awesome. Without trying to sound 

pompous, she comes from a nice family. She

is an attorney, or was going to be an attorney,

and then realized the law sucks, and the world

is f---ing boring and stupid, and you should

probably do what you like to do. So, it seems

like she's made a little bit of a left-hand turn,

and now she's studying to be a Bikram yoga

instructor, which is super badass.

Is this the type of person you would

normally date?

JULIA: I don't really have a normal type. He's 

an individual. He's unique. I don't know.

MATT: I wouldn't walk up to her in a bar, 

and I don't think she would walk up to me in

a bar, but if two people we were friends with

introduced us-like you guys just did-yeah,

we probably could date.

How was Hennessey's?
JULIA: It was good. I'd like to go there when 

there's a big game on, like a Charger game

or something. I could see it being pretty

happening. The drinks were good. The staff

was really nice-and very attractive, actually.

MATT: It was awesome. It was the nicest 

Hennessey's I've ever been to. It was even

kinda romantic, I guess, for a Hennessey's.

Drinks were really good, actually. Good

Cadillac margaritas, solid.

What gift did you give your date?
JULIA: I gave him a Bikram yoga hat from 

the training that I'm in. I was going to give

him this pair of Bengal tiger-stripped velvet

yoga shorts, but I thought that was kind of

ridiculous. Then he gave me a Snuggie that

looks like Santa, so now I wish I had given

him the Bengal tiger shorts. He said he would

have worn them.

MATT: A normal Snuggie isn't appropriate 

for the holiday season, so I gave her a Santa

Snuggie. I also gave her a Ninja Warrior

play-set (so she can keep a few throwing stars

underneath her Santa Snuggie) and the gift of

life, which are Silly Bandz.

What gift did you receive?
JULIA: I liked it, the Snuggie. I also got some, 

like, ninja set and some Silly Bandz, so you

know I'm well prepared for whatever. They

made me laugh.

MATT: I got a Bikram yoga hat (I think 

it's from the course she's taking), which is

awesome, because I totally like hats.

What is the most attractive thing your date

has done so far?

JULIA: Probably a toss up between the gifts 

and just the way he makes conversation.

MATT: She didn't talk about herself too 

much. Most people are like a f---ing dam

breaks, and blah, blah, blah. She's talking and

being very forthright, but not turning on the

fire hydrant.

What is the least attractive thing your date

has done so far?

JULIA: He had to take a bunch of calls, but 

they were for work. You know, I don't really

know what he does yet. Maybe he's

a doctor and he's saving lives. He just says he

works at night.

MATT: She drives a Beemer and not a 

Mercedes.

What would your parents

say if you brought your

date home?

JULIA: I don't know. 

They would probably be

like, "Yahtzee!"

MATT: They would be like, 

"F---ing please get married!"

Rate your date, physically, on a scale of one

to 10.

JULIA: For looks? I give him like a solid eight/ 

nine.

MATT: An eight.

And for personality?
JULIA: He's like a nine.
MATT: Nine.

Does your date want to kiss you right now?
JULIA: No idea.
MATT: Probably.


After their mid-date interviews, Julia and Matt are finally left alone to enjoy the rest of their evening at Roppongi, away from the flashing camera and pesky interviewer. We call the next day to see what we missed.

Overall, how was the date?
JULIA: It was a fun experience.
MATT: Super smart-nice to find native brains west of the Mississippi.

How was Roppongi?
JULIA: We had the sushi bar to ourselves, which was conducive to conversation. The rest of the restaurant was hopping. We had Sake with toro and yellowtail sushi. The sushi chefs made some special rolls for us as well, and we had a few sips of a really nice Tequila before we left.
MATT: The restaurant was bustling, full of cougar cubs and manthers, wining and dining in what appeared to be a cool, fun atmosphere. We sat and ate sushi at the sushi bar, which was ultra-good quality.

What was the best part of the date?
JULIA: The dinner conversation was the best part. We discovered we know a lot of the same people and we laughed a lot.
MATT: Julia is studying to be a Bikram Yoga instructor, which works on a lot of levels.

What was the worst part?
JULIA: He had to devote time and attention to his work on his cell phone.
MATT: When I first walked in and read in her eyes, "Oh, great, a douche bag." That was the New York skyline on my shirt, not Affliction- come on, now.

Was there a romantic connection?
JULIA: We could certainly be friends, but I'm not sure about anything more, yet.
MATT: Lip-only kiss at the conclusion.

What happened after the magazine crew left?
JULIA: After dinner, Matt said he was off to work downtown. We had a rather confusing good-bye outside the restaurant in La Jolla. A few texts later, he sent a car for me and my friends to come have a drink with him at Syrah. He was a good host, but it was really busy. We didn't spend that much time together.
MATT: She was heading home and I was heading to work. We ended up texting, and then I met up with her and her friends at Syrah. I got them a drink, we had a good laugh about our date, then I made her feel my muscle-or did I do that at the restaurant? In either case, it was a moment of awesomeness.

Will there be a second date?
JULIA: I don't know.
MATT: She talked me into doing a Bikram Yoga class.

Based on your experience last night, what would have been the perfect gift for your date?
JULIA: A personal assistant.
MATT: My gift was perfect.

After Match
Julia really said that about Matt's needing a personal assistant. We couldn't make this stuff up (if we did, we'd say the couple nearly got arrested for indecent exposure in Bird Rock, or something to that effect).

Without his executive assistant on hand to answer his phone during the date, did Matt's business calls interfere with any chance for romance, or were they lifelines, facilitating an escape to lush-er pastures? Given that he sent a car to bring Julia and her besties to Syrah, the question remains unanswered-for now. But if that yoga class (which, in Matt's words, "works on a lot of levels,") really happens, perhaps a second date isn't such a stretch.

THANK YOU!
Hennessey's Tavern
7811 Herschel Avenue, La Jolla,
858.551.8772,
hennesseystavern.com

Roppongi Restaurant & Sushi Bar
875 Prospect Street, La Jolla,
858.551.5252, roppongiusa.com


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